For many first time travelers to China, a trip to the Middle Kingdom is touched by the same minor inconveniences, misunderstandings and troubles that come with any international vacation and make for funny travel anecdotes without souring the experience. Smart travelers are wary anywhere—different countries and cities around the world have their own pitfalls.
Travelers to China (especially in Beijing and Shanghai) are often approached at major tourist attractions by young, well-spoken students pretending that they would like to practice their English. Most likely, the unsuspecting tourists are about to be scammed in China. More after the jump....
A Bad Welcome
You've just visited the Forbidden City and Tian'anmen Square. With those checked off your list you wonder where to go next. Scanning your guidebook, you see you're relatively close to Wanfujing shopping street and decide to check it out.
"Hello."
You turn around to see three girls, pretty, probably college age, walking towards you. They strike up a conversation and ask about your trip, how you've enjoyed China and where you're going. After you tell them the direction you're heading in, they say they're heading there, too. They can take you, but maybe you'd want to join them for some tea. They steer you down a lane towards a quaint-looking tea house and into a little room in the back.
They say they'd like to show you good Chinese tea and you're presented with what tastes like any other tea you've ever had, but you're polite and smile, pretending to enjoy it anyway. Then the bill comes. At RMB 888, the numbers suggest luck (8 is a lucky number in China), but not for you.
These things happen. To people who've read all the guidebooks and thought themselves prepared. To people that arrive with a steady grasp of Chinese. To people with a passport full of stamps from around the world.
My experience
In my first months after arriving in China, I took advantage of a three-day weekend to travel from Ningbo (where I worked) to Beijing, where I'd studied for a semester and still had a few friends. After touring the Forbidden City, I found myself in a similar position.
Spotting a rube with his guidebook outside one of Beijing's top tourist attractions, three college-age girls approached me and struck up a conversation. I immediately thought about a conversation I'd had with a coworker about his first week in Shanghai when he was taken in by a tea house scam. I wasn't invited to a tea ceremony but just for a drink and a chat. I was pretty sure it was a scam, but being interested to see where it would go, I dove in.
We ended up walking among mildly gentrified hutong, passing tea houses and little shops aimed at tourists. The lead girl pointed out a place that I rejected because it was too dark. I knew what I was getting myself into, but I didn't want to get trapped. I said something about looking for someplace with windows so I could enjoy the nice weather. After a series of proposals and rejections, we entered a tea house with large windows out front and a number of customers, some of whom were also foreign, sitting down enjoying tea.
Inside, I was led to a partitioned-off table with the girls and handed a menu. Mine appeared to be the only such table, and our menu was not what I saw sitting on other tables. I ordered a fabulously overpriced Sprite (RMB 45) and the girls each ordered a drink along with a fruit plate. When it arrived, I mentioned I had already eaten and wasn't hungry, plus I only had a small amount of money with me for the weekend and couldn't afford much.
Our conversation, which was perfectly nice, began with them asking about my prior time in China and my experiences teaching, me asking about their studies and city (they told me they were Nanjing University students who were traveling). They tried to offer me fruit, but I declined. In the end, the RMB 500 or so bill came and they offered to split it 50/50 with me to which I refused, reminding them I hadn't eaten the fruit plate and reiterating my previous objections.
They continued to plead and I continued to reject until the lead girl, angry and exasperated, finally relented. I gave her an RMB 100 bill to pay for my Sprite and waited with the other girls for my change while they sat awkward and silent. They attempted to leave, so I told the lead girl I needed my change. We argued a bit more before she again relented and took me to the front for my change.
Leaving them behind, I returned to the main street and again pulled out my guidebook and soon found myself greeted by three college-age girls.
"Hello."
They offered to take me for a beer and I told them I was headed to an English language bookstore and in a hurry, but I would walk with them (particularly because I didn't know where I was going). They steered me towards an upstairs café near the shopping area and I apologized and said that I needed to continue on my way. The lead girl of the group got angry and said I had already agreed to come with them, I reminded her that I had told her maybe because I had been in a hurry and left the girls behind, though not before asking one of the other girls where the bookstore I was looking for was. She directed me with a defeated, limp gesture and a brief explanation.
Anatomy of a scam
The people, schemes and places vary and there are a number of different ways the deal goes down, but in general they have a few things in common.
Travelers in bustling, popular shopping areas or near major tourist sites—places like Shanghai's Nanjing Lu or People's Square or the Beijing attractions mentioned above—are approached by a small group of friendly young people, or a single young person, who often say they're students at a Chinese university or language institution (it's possible they even are). Obvious signs of being a tourist (opening a fat travel guide or spreading out a map) will attract them.
Levels of English vary, but in many cases they'll speak with consummate skill. At some point in the ensuing conversation, which may even include them guiding you somewhere or helping you shop, you will be invited to a language exchange, a tea ceremony, a drink, a beer, a coffee or an art gallery.
They'll want to choose the venue. If it's a tea house or café, you may be taken to a back room or simply a screened-off area like I was. If you're given a menu, it won't be the same as what regular guests are perusing. You're a special guest.
You may be served a few cups of different teas presented as if they were samples or a snack or fruit plate. Eventually, you'll be presented with the bill, which will no doubt contain more numbers than you expected. These bills can go into the thousands of RMB.
Attempts to explain your way out of the bill may be met with anything from pouting and shy, polite appeals to making a show as if they might call the police. Any situation that actually involves the police would still pit your word against theirs,which is not a good place to be when you're out of your element and have no proof.
Recognize the feeling—and get out while the gettin's good
Travelers who've been in these situations often report feeling unsure or suspicious of what's happening even early on, but set it aside. You didn't come to China not to meet new people and have new experiences, right?
From the beginning, be suspicious of a stranger offering to take you somewhere. Mom said that, right? Examine your situation. People you've ended up in conversation with over breakfast at your hostel asking if you want to join them on their tour of the Summer Palace is one thing. A stranger approaching you on the street asking you to join them for a coffee is another.
After a certain point in such a scam, you will probably find yourself trapped—get out before that happens. Blogger China Mike wisely notes that your new friend insisting on choosing the venue him or herself is a big red flag. In my experiment, the first group of girls took me to several specific tea places before I agreed to one.
The most important thing is to be aware of what's going on around you. Don't get involved in any situation you feel uncomfortable with or that seems strange. Don't let scam and fears of theft dampen your trip to China, but travel smart and travel safe.
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Ha Ha,
This is really true. I'm actually in Shanghai right now and had an experience of my life!
I just arrived from Europe and had a walk on Nanjing Lu when a fantastic woman came up and asked me a few questions. After 2 minutes we entered a tea house. (Why didn't my brain stop me at that time? Since I read of this several times and especially since I´ve been to China atleast 20 times the last 7 years.)
But she was so great looking and had a charm that no man can resist. But it was in someway thrustworth and not too pushy.
I've never cheated on my wife since I love her most of all, but I thought i could kill a few moments of lonelyness with her in the tea house.
It started very nice, turned into thoughts I haven't had in many years, bacame a shock but had a happy ending!!
I ordered coffee, asked for american coffee for 38 RMB but she convinced me that 'blue mountain coffee' was better. 68 RMB!!
We got what we ordered together with a plate of fruit and 2 plates of nuts. And a few glasses of some whiskey/burbon that tasted better when you poured Coke into it!
Anyway, I thought it would end up like 500 'rmb something, and it could be worth it...
I gave her a notice that I could be in trouble when paying the bill. But she didn't think so.
We continued our good time together, after a while we come into the subject, sex... It was like on a european club coming close to time for going home. She said that the Chinese way was to order tea for calming down the stomach before going to my hotel for some good time.
Together with the tea we got 8 glasses of Whiskey/burbon (same shit as last time). I refused but she started to poor everything into 2 bigger glasses.
We continued the conversation. Guess what we talked about? SEX, of course.
My lucky star was that I never bring more money than what I think I would spend that evening, and never any credit cards!! 200 RMB. She got that message quite early in the evening. Before we emptied the glasses she said that she has a friend that really would like to participate in the fun we all would have. At that moment I understood what fool I was.
She had a proposal that she would leave her stuff at the tea house and make me company to the hotel and after returning with my credit card we would go back to the hotel for some really hot things... As I already(!) had figured it out I wanted to check the reciept (Fa piao in Chinese). They didn't like that, but summarized a few things, fruit 130 RMB etc. I insisted of having a total sum. After a few moments they summarized it to 6300 RMB!!!!!!
I got a little upset and when we left the bar we had one rather big Chinese in company. I told her that she had to pay her part and just after a few moments of complaining she approved that...
Back on the street I was thinking that this is something that the police probably would like to know more about. (Still thinking that I had to pay 3200 RMB for 2 h conversation)
My lucky star was here. After 50 m on Nanjing Lu we saw one of these battery driven "golf-cars" with 1 police man and 3 officials. Unfortunately he couldn't speak a word of English. But he showed me a card from his chest pocket (like a referee shows a soccer player the red card when it's time to leave the game)-
It said that it was prohibited to buy fake copies of clothes in China. ( I am wearing a Lyle&Scott shirt bought in Europe!!!) The girl talked to the police and she convinced him that we first should pay the bill and after that go to the police station. I refused. At that moment she got really upset and grabbed my glasses. First I tried to take them back but all 4 "policemen" got upset. Next move from me was just to block her way. I know that many officials in China are corrupted and I was not sure who they trusted.
The police told me to jump into the car and she shouted f**k you at me and that they would find me. We went off and I had no idea where the police would bring me since we couldn't talk.
First time I understood that I would get out of this was when they stopped at a crossing just "out". I ran to the hotel. And here I am, quite shaky but the happy ending is that I got quite a jag, and completely for free. I didn't have to pay a single RMB!
But the important thing in China: If something seems to be better than what it seems to be, it isn't.
And remember, don't get drunk with your credit card available!
By the way, I still love China but I got an experience that I wouldn't dream of!!
By One hell of experience September 18,2011 11:53 PM
Wow, that's quite a story, thanks for sharing! I'm sure for every one that gets away there's another tourist stung for a couple of g's...
By Aimee Groom September 19,2011 05:46 PM